Thursday, 06 November 2008

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    I've decided that what he doesn't know won't hurt him. The truth will come out eventually, and I might as well just sick back and wait. In the meantime, I'm going to enjoy his company, enjoy him spoiling me, enjoy just being with him. Especially since I've never dated anyone like him before ~ and chances are, I never will again.

    There's no need to stress over anything I can do nothing about.

    I said when we first met that I would be different this time - no stressing if things aren't perfect, no second-guessing myself, no over-analyzing every minute detail. Just enjoy. Just breathe. Just relax. Now, if I can only take my own advice and stick to my 'plan'.

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  • secqura
    Hang in there!

    I have created a profile just so I could catch my fiance on line.  He has already accepted me as a friend and he has been talking to me basically every other day.  I know it is wrong but I just did not believe him when he told me that it was really nothing between the friends he has accepted.  I must now say that I regret doing this becasue of an email that he sent yesterday. He said some things to her (ME) that made my heart sink.  Just be careful.  I thouhgt what I did not know would not hurt me but it did and even though I hurt i can't and wont ever confront him about this. This is just another pain that I have to deal with unnecessarily.  He may be hurting you, but dont do things that could hurt yourself. your right just enyoy it while it last. that is what i have decided to do. like i said I did not give up on him.  I say the same to you, don't give up on him, maybe there is a reason for what he is doing. but I think that you are doing the best thing going into this with your eyes open so you will be prepared for what ever comes.  Treasur that little bit of hope ethat things will work in your favor. 

  • Vivid_Orchid

    @secqura - Wow! I'm so sorry! I've done something very similar before with results like yours. I'm fairly certain that things won't work out. There are just too many questions there, but I do plan on enjoying it while it lasts.


    I don't know if it will help you or not - but I always remember that what goes around comes around. I'm seeing this in my ex-husband right now - every time he hands me that child support check, every time he drops the kids off at the house that i bought with my own money, every time he babysits for me so that i can go on a date,  he's reminded of how HE chose to walk off and leave us. Payback is fantastic!

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